Welcome to the blog series that will guide you through the process of finding your own style or refining it. STEP: 5 Be confident. There aren't many things in life which we can control so easily like the clothes we put on, so why not to make the most of them? Working on your personal style means self-care. Listening to your needs and giving them the highest priority builds confidence that attracts the right people into your life. Every day you can celebrate the person you are through your personal style. It is always available to you.